Pismo mojoj bucmastoj ženi

Robi Trip, muzička hip-hop zvezda iznenadio je svoju suprugu emotivnom porukom koju joj je posvetio objavivši njihovu fotografiju sa plaže.

Robi je u isti mah pokušao da adresira i na problem ”idealne lepote žene” koje muškarci traže, a devojčice žude da postanu.

 

 

 

 

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|| I love this woman and her curvy body. As a teenager, I was often teased by my friends for my attraction to girls on the thicker side, ones who were shorter and curvier, girls that the average (basic) bro might refer to as “chubby” or even “fat.” Then, as I became a man and started to educate myself on issues such as feminism and how the media marginalizes women by portraying a very narrow and very specific standard of beauty (thin, tall, lean) I realized how many men have bought into that lie. For me, there is nothing sexier than this woman right here: thick thighs, big booty, cute little side roll, etc. Her shape and size won’t be the one featured on the cover of Cosmopolitan but it’s the one featured in my life and in my heart. There’s nothing sexier to me than a woman who is both curvy and confident; this gorgeous girl I married fills out every inch of her jeans and is still the most beautiful one in the room. Guys, rethink what society has told you that you should desire. A real woman is not a porn star or a bikini mannequin or a movie character. She’s real. She has beautiful stretch marks on her hips and cute little dimples on her booty. Girls, don’t ever fool yourself by thinking you have to fit a certain mold to be loved and appreciated. There is a guy out there who is going to celebrate you for exactly who you are, someone who will love you like I love my Sarah. || photo cred: @kaileehjudd

A post shared by ROBBIE TRIPPâ„¢ (@tripp) on Jul 30, 2017 at 6:10pm PDT

Volim te takvu kakva jesi

”Volim ovu ženu i njene obline. Kao tinejdžera, prijatelji su me često zadirkivali jer su mi se sviđače devojke sa oblinama, a koje su drugi nazivali ”bucmastim” ili ”debelim”. Kada sam postajao muškarcem, počeo sam da se obrazujem o pitanjima poput feminizma i kako mediji marginalizuju žene prikazujući vrlo specifičan standard lepote – mršave, visoke, zategnute  – I shvatio koliko je muškaraca zapravo kupilo tu laž.

Za mene, ne postoji žena koja je lapša od ove – sa njenim bokovima, zadnjicom, slatkim šaufčićima. Njeno telo neće se pojaviti na naslovnici Cosmopolitana, ali nikada neće otići iz mog života i srca. Za mene nema ništa seksipilnije od žene koja ima obline i samouverena je – devojka koju sam oženio uvek zaseni sve u prostoriji.

Ljudi, razmislite šta vam je društvo reklo da treba da želite. Prava žena nije porno zvezda, ni manekenka, ni filmska glumica. Ona je stvarna. Ima strije na bokovima i mala udubljenja na zadnjici.  Devojke, nemojte se prevariti misleći da morate da uđete u kalup da biste bile voljene i cenjene. Tamo negde nalazi se čovek koji će slaviti vas takve kakve ste, neko ko će vas voleti baš kao što ja volim Saru.”